“Playing Hard to Get”

Don’t ever use that creepy, rapey, manipulative phrase “playing hard to get.” I’m not obligated to chat with you when I don’t feel like chatting. I’m not obligated to answer your questions about what I like to read or to supply more detail than, “I read many genres” if that’s all I feel like saying. The only people I enjoy socializing with are feminists — who would never use that expression.